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In Defense of the ‘Good’ Girl+

Women used to encounter shame if they went to work. Now there’s shaming if they don’t. I am a year out of college and in the...

Read More+ May 24, 2013
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Can I Be Pretty?+

Since I was first pregnant and learned I was going to have a girl, I could feel in my bones the question she would one...

Read More+ May 21, 2013
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The Problem with Prayer+

Just before her 15-year-old son was shot and killed not far from the Obama’s ‘Tony’ home in Chicago, Timika Ruteledge-German prayed for her youngest child....

Read More+ May 17, 2013
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A Relationship Worth Recording+

My childhood was spent designing spaceships with legos or impersonating NBA greats on a mini hoop in my basement or refining my radio voice on...

Read More+ May 14, 2013
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Seven-Year-Old Apologist Stands Up to Problem of Evil+

Recently, as I began the nightly ritual of putting children to bed, I knelt by my seven-year-old son’s bed and had an unexpected conversation. “Something...

Read More+ May 10, 2013
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Expectations: Best and Worst+

Recently we bought a house. It felt like nothing short of a miracle. We had searched and searched for several years, and after lots of...

Read More+ May 7, 2013
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Resisting the Hard Sell at Cabo and Church+

For my 30th birthday, my wife and I took a trip to Cabo San Lucas with some friends. Cabo is a world of recreational activities....

Read More+ May 3, 2013
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The Bright Sadness+

To know where we are, we must know where we have come from, and also, where we are going.  During Lent, we acknowledge the tension...

Read More+ April 30, 2013
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There is No One-Person Show+

The other morning — while racing from the bank to the grocery to a morning meeting — I caught the end of a radio conversation...

Read More+ April 26, 2013
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The Face of God in the Face of My Friends+

To preview Jonalyn’s speaking engagement at the Bold Boundaries conference on Friday in Chicago, we invited Happy Thorp, an associate pastor at Torch Church in...

Read More+ April 23, 2013