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		<title>How Honest Are You? A reflection-review on Scott Peck&#8217;s _People of the Lie_</title>
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		<dc:creator>Dale Fincher</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Going to a therapist takes great courage, says M. Scott Peck.  He adds that exploring our souls through therapy is deeply human, a unique quality among creatures.  But therapy fails to work for everyone; it only works for those who want to get better.

Honesty is necessary for anyone serious with soul formation, Jesus [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Going to a therapist takes great courage, says <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/M._Scott_Peck">M. Scott Peck</a>.<span style="">  </span>He adds that exploring our souls through therapy is deeply human, a unique quality among creatures.<span style="">  </span>But therapy fails to work for everyone; it only works for those who want to get better.
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<p class="MsoNormal">Honesty is necessary for anyone serious with soul formation, Jesus changing us with his love and truth.<span style="">  </span>Therapy assists us in that.  If you believe you have the honesty but not yet the courage to visit a therapist or do not believe plopping down a decent sum for an hour of their time each week, then I have a book for you.</p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://astore.amazon.com/soulation-20/190-6730688-9101426?_encoding=UTF8&amp;node=3"><img style="margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; float: left; cursor: pointer; width: 117px; height: 187px;" src="http://www.coverbrowser.com/image/bestsellers-2006/3333-1.jpg" alt="" border="0" /></a><span style="font-style: italic;"><a href="http://astore.amazon.com/soulation-20/190-6730688-9101426?_encoding=UTF8&amp;node=3">People of the Lie,</a> </span>by psychotherapist M. Scott Peck, has joined my top ten list.<span style="">  </span>Every page pushed me, carried me forward, probed me with self-examining questions (do I really want truth?), helped me understand others and notice excuses and scapegoating (&#8220;the genesis of human evil&#8221; &#8211; 74).  I better understand what sin looks like and why the modern church struggles to see transformation beyond moral behavior happening in the pews.</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">Be warned.<span style="">  </span>If you’re not willing to explore your soul, this book can make you a worse person, a better hider.<span style="">  </span>I agree with C. S. Lewis when he says (I paraphrase), truth will either make you better or worse; of all bad men religious bad men are the worst; of all creatures, the most demonic is the one who stood in the immediate presence of God (from <span style="font-style: italic;">Reflections on the Psalms</span>).<span style="">  </span>I know people who need this book for their own recovery; but I wouldn’t recommend it to them if I do not perceive a willingness to let light shine in.<span style=""> </span> For &#8220;the pretense of the evil [person] is designed at least as much to deceive themselves as others.&#8221; (106)<span style=""> </span>This book will be a real hope, when they are ready.<span style="">  </span>But not before.</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">For those who are ready, expect morsels on every page.  Peck formats his book in conversations, followed by analysis.<span style="">  </span>Both captivate the reader as Peck writes satisfyingly well.<span style="">  </span>His conversations peek into the psychotherapist’s room, talking with patients, asking questions, giving evaluations.<span style="">  </span>Through the candid dialog, you see the patient’s hang-ups, hear how Peck sees or feels befuddled by an issue, how the patients deliberately make excuses, hide, ignore, protest, put up defenses in their words or their posture.  Through the book, the author grows as he weighs problems and soberly estimates his own abilities.</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">Though complex stories of hiding human evil form the backbone of the book, Peck starts with a couple of simpler one to give the reader eyes to see evil.  For example: parents give their son a gun for Christmas and don’t understand why he’s depressed.<span style="">  </span>On evaluation, Peck discovers the older brother committed suicide with this same gun.  When Peck questions the parents, they thought it odd the gift would cause a problem and protested that with their lack of money, the gun was a perfect, coveted gift for a boy his age.  But it is very likely, Peck replies, they are sending their son a message that they’d like him to use the gun on himself, just as his brother did.<span style="">  </span>They continue the scapegoating that they are uneducated, blue-collar, cannot be expected to know these kinds of nuances&#8230;</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">That story is a clear sign of something evil in the parents, a deliberate ignorance, though they seem typical friendly people when you meet them.<span style=""><br /></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">Peck believes more evil people live outside of prison than in prison.<span style="">  </span>In fact, most in jail are not truly <span style="font-style: italic;">evil </span>people.<span style="">  </span>They acted out of neurosis or tough times.<span style="">  </span>But evil people are deliberate hiders, long-term, masquerading in law firms, churches, politics, and local supermarkets.</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">Evil often stems from parenting.  Children become victims that have an opportunity to break out or remain in the web of deceit.<span style="">  </span>One story unfolded of a woman and her very co-dependent, passive-aggressive mother.  The mother craftily shaped her own identity with her daughter&#8217;s.  The mother resented the father and had frequent sexual liaisons.<span style="">  </span>The daughter learned to do the same and even compared notes with her mother.<span style="">  </span>They both stood against her father.<span style="">  </span>As the years passed, the daughter discovered her father wasn’t such a bad guy as she was brought up to believe.<span style="">  </span>And whenever she tried to separate from her mother, her mother would mischievously find a way to suck her back in (you have to read the dialogue to see how these things play out in real life).<span style="">  </span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://www.communitymx.com/content/source/BB72B/spider.jpg"><img style="margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; float: left; cursor: pointer; width: 103px; height: 109px;" src="http://www.communitymx.com/content/source/BB72B/spider.jpg" alt="" border="0" /></a>A fascinating part of the story is this woman’s phobia spiders.<span style="">  </span>She transferred her fear of her mother to spiders, never wanting to be honest about her mother, refusing to blame her for being evil, insisting other reasons explain why she sits in the therapists chair.<span style=""> </span>The spiders represented the feeling of being trapped, stuck, a victim sucked of blood.<span style=""> As she grew toward heath, she admitted that her fear of spiders was her emotional response to </span>her feelings toward her mother.</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">That related to my own life as I&#8217;ve worked to unpack the story.<span style="">  </span>I have a phobia, not of spiders, but of needles.<span style="">  </span>I’m the worst case I know of.<span style="">  </span>I don’t pass out: I go into panic attacks, low blood pressure, heavy sweats.<span style=""> This happens at movies, doctor&#8217;s waiting rooms, dentists chairs.   </span>I’ve even had a dentist poised to call the ambulance (I know, crazy, huh?)<span style="">.  </span>I pondered the cause of my transference to this irrational phobia.<span style="">  </span>I think I found it. I’m still experimenting.<span style="">  </span>I’ve shared my theory with my own therapist and she affirmed it. <span style=""> </span>But time will tell as I heal from evil done to my soul, evil that I blamed myself for as a child instead of blaming the perpetrator.<span style="">  </span>Children are prone to self-blame, I’m learning, and that goes very deep.</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">&#8220;Whenever there is evil, there&#8217;s a lie around.&#8221; (135)<span style="">  </span>Lies that cover up, paint a rosier picture, create pretense, refuse to disclose certain truths.<span style="">  </span>While all lies are evil, not all liars are evil people.<span style=""> </span>They slowly grow evil as they continue to lie.<span style=""> </span><span style="font-style: italic;">It is possible to have a vice and then become your vice.  </span>The question for us is not whether or not Satan, the Father of Lies, has a finger in our lives.<span style="">  </span>The question is how much and what we are doing about it?  The older we get the more calcified we can become, the further we grow away from truth, light, and love when we are unwilling to face our problems, the lies we insulate around us to protect us from having to face our spouses, our children, our parents, our belief systems, ourselves.</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">Peck gradually leads the reader to the most severe kinds of evil: the demonic.<span style="">  </span>As the book begins, he disbelieves in the devil.<span style="">  </span>But through analysis, he bumped into two particular cases of demon possession, where Satan took residence in a person.<span style=""><br /></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style=""> </span>The demonic is not another form of schizophrenia, for schizophrenia is a disorder where the multiple personalities do not know one another.<span style="">  </span>For the demonically possessed, the patient does know this other personality that traps the patient, suffocating them within.<span style=""><br /></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style=""> </span>Peck describes pieces of two different exorcisms in which he participated. He notes consistencies these demonic personalities had and the lies they spewed (interestingly , some of the lies are ones that we often hear praised in spiritual conversations).<span style="">  </span>I read part of this section before sleep one evening and I dreamed bizarre pictures filled with fear.<span style="">  </span>I don’t recommend reading that section at night.<span style="">  </span>But for all that, I came out the other side of that chapter very encouraged, not only with the limitations of Satan’s power in the physical world, but also with the power of humans individuals who love.<span style="">  </span>We are made in the image of God, after all.</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">Peck includes a perspective-shifting chapter on “group evil” where he describes how institutions can make us all culpable of certain crimes.<span style=""> This chapter validated thoughts I&#8217;ve about huge institutions, the craftiness of power-brokering in the name of virtue, the rhetoric to disguise real intentions.  The larger the institution, the easier evil can hide and wreak havoc, including governments and churches. </span><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://www.pbs.org/thewar/images/inline_pics/landing_at_war_03.jpg"><img style="margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; float: right; cursor: pointer; width: 271px; height: 219px;" src="http://www.pbs.org/thewar/images/inline_pics/landing_at_war_03.jpg" alt="" border="0" /></a></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">For example, we follow orders and few know who is ultimately responsible.<span style=""> </span><span style=""> </span>Even our tax money goes toward evil things, making everyone guilty of some kinds of evil at some level.<span style="">  </span>The ones at the top, generals, presidents, and CEOs, are not the ones who pull the trigger on the ground.<span style="">  </span>Foot soldiers and employees do that.<span style=""> Citizens foot the bill. </span>Everyone does as they are told, blind to the consequences up and down the chain.</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">The last chapter of the book, on love, is worth the price of the book.<span style="">  </span>The impact of the final section means more when you read the book all the way through.</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">I disagree with some aspects of Peck’s theological views, like his view that Satan will have a chance at the end of history to make a choice of redemption.<span style=""> </span>But despite theological disagreements, his view of love and evil are not easily dismissed and are well worth your attention.<span style=""> </span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">The way out of evil?  Love, which begins with noting the evil within yourself and facing it, which sometimes means therapy.  Love is a light that will change the direction of evil.  Only the love of individuals can sacrificially absorb evil and set others free. This is the love modeled by Jesus, the love he gives us, the love his Spirit empowers in us.   &#8220;People can deliberately allow themselves to be pierced by evil of others&#8230;to even be killed in some sense and yet still survive and not succumb.  Whenever this happens there is a slight shift in the balance of power in the world.&#8221;  (269).  Facing evil, though painful, is liberating, cleansing, a relief for everyone who wants to be whole.</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">Peck is a huge proponent of appropriate humanness.<span style="">  </span>  I wish he were alive so I could thank him for shining the light of love and truth and letting me know just how far the love of God goes.</p>
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