Subscribe

About

Are you curious if faith, feminism and Christian womanhood can intersect? You've found the crossroads. Ruby Slippers is the sparkly nexus of femininity, spirituality and sexual renewal.

I'm the early wife, later mother who writes about the real possibility of following Jesus as a bold female in this century. If you're another curious cat about strong woman who are also sexy, emotional, intelligent, strong and Christian, read on.

Popular Posts:

Flat: Pre and Post Pregnancy Body
How Tina Fey Helped Me Love My Body
Finn's Birth: Green Means Go
Finn's Birth: Dignity and Pain
Thighs and Curly Girls
When a Man You Love Was Abused
When Virgins Marry
Some Questions for Mark Driscoll
A Week of Miscarriage

Looking for something specific? Search by any keyword in Search box at top.

Have a topic you'd like Jonalyn to address, contact her directly? jonalyn@soulation.org

Interested in setting up a personal one-on-one chat session (for free): Ask LIVE! at soulation.org

Recent Posts

Recent Comments

Read by Category

My Work

Writing on Motherhood Second Year Mom

Writing on Women and Friendship Let Me Be Me

Writing on Following Jesus in Grit and Glory Breakfast Reading

Subscribe to Soulation's weekly devotionals Be Human


Most recent book Coffee Shop Conversations

CSC final cover

My first book Ruby Slippers
Browse online reader's guide

0310272432

Female Sexuality Panel at Irving Bible Church

Websites Helping Women

Biography

I've been married 10 years to Dale Fincher, an old soul who makes me feel young and brilliant. We’ve lately had a son, Finn, who we love baby wearing

Seven years ago Dale and I co-founded Soulation. a non-profit dedicated to helping others become more appropriately human. Dale and I work as a speaking/writing team.

I love watercolor, snowshoeing, cooking and reading. Favorite movie to impress you “The Lives of Others”, favorite movie on a Sabbath is "Last Holiday", favorite book Mansfield Park. At the moment we're watching Mad Men, 30Rock, The Office and Dora the Explorer.

Archive for the ‘1’ Category


Sex: Idol, Art or Sport?

October 26th, 2011 by Jonalyn

Last week a young woman, A, asked in response to my post “When Virgins Marry“, You wrote, ‎”Marriage was the door to sex for me and my husband. And because I’ve never known sex outside of it, I’m afraid I’m terribly biased about the power sex can have. When virgins marry they get a chance [...]

Tags: ,
Posted in 1 | Comments (15)


The Needs of the Day

September 15th, 2010 by Jonalyn

You know what I’ve discovered? It’s hard to write. Not just the craft of writing, that’s hard in and of itself, but the discovery that what you write isn’t widely appreciated. I’m sure other authors know what I mean. We just received word on how our recent book, the first we’re written together, Coffee Shop [...]

Tags: ,
Posted in 1, pain | Comments (21)


Beauty and Headscarves

August 30th, 2010 by Jonalyn

Beautiful woman. Beautiful puppy.  Beautiful meadow. Beautiful baby.  Beautiful relationship. Beautiful God. What do we mean when we talk about beauty in women? Philosophizing about Beauty With my philsopher’s hat slightly askew (thank you sleep deprivation) let me tease apart some things (value, beauty, attraction, sexiness) that get tangled together.  Beauty is not the same as [...]

Tags: , , , , ,
Posted in 1, beauty | Comments (30)


Abortion – Listening to Both Sides

May 30th, 2010 by Jonalyn

In a Gallup poll released last month, I learned that 47% of Americans consider themselves pro-life, 45% pro-choice.  As William McGurn wrote in the Wall Street Journal (“Gallup’s Pro-Life America: When Will the Media Reflect America on Abortion?“) this week, “Our strong moral qualms about abortion have not gone away.” However, most Americans still want [...]

Tags: , , , , , ,
Posted in 1, apologetics, family, motherhood, pain, pregnancy | Comments (55)





I want to be more human!
Hear from us each week
     contact us   -   donate



Design: Hello Chameleon
Code: Bill Moore, Eric Nielsen