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I've been married 10 years to Dale Fincher, an old soul who makes me feel young and brilliant. We’ve lately had a son, Finn, who we love baby wearing

Seven years ago Dale and I co-founded Soulation. a non-profit dedicated to helping others become more appropriately human. Dale and I work as a speaking/writing team.

I love watercolor, snowshoeing, cooking and reading. Favorite movie to impress you “The Lives of Others”, favorite movie on a Sabbath is "Last Holiday", favorite book Mansfield Park. At the moment we're watching Mad Men, 30Rock, The Office and Dora the Explorer.

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Sex: Idol, Art or Sport?

October 26th, 2011 by Jonalyn

Last week a young woman, A, asked in response to my post “When Virgins Marry“, You wrote, ‎”Marriage was the door to sex for me and my husband. And because I’ve never known sex outside of it, I’m afraid I’m terribly biased about the power sex can have. When virgins marry they get a chance [...]

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The Needs of the Day

September 15th, 2010 by Jonalyn

You know what I’ve discovered? It’s hard to write. Not just the craft of writing, that’s hard in and of itself, but the discovery that what you write isn’t widely appreciated. I’m sure other authors know what I mean. We just received word on how our recent book, the first we’re written together, Coffee Shop [...]

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Beauty and Headscarves

August 30th, 2010 by Jonalyn

Beautiful woman. Beautiful puppy.  Beautiful meadow. Beautiful baby.  Beautiful relationship. Beautiful God. What do we mean when we talk about beauty in women? Philosophizing about Beauty With my philsopher’s hat slightly askew (thank you sleep deprivation) let me tease apart some things (value, beauty, attraction, sexiness) that get tangled together.  Beauty is not the same as [...]

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Abortion – Listening to Both Sides

May 30th, 2010 by Jonalyn

In a Gallup poll released last month, I learned that 47% of Americans consider themselves pro-life, 45% pro-choice.  As William McGurn wrote in the Wall Street Journal (“Gallup’s Pro-Life America: When Will the Media Reflect America on Abortion?“) this week, “Our strong moral qualms about abortion have not gone away.” However, most Americans still want [...]

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A Theology of Female Embodiment- Part II- One Week of Miscarriage (in five installments)

January 12th, 2008 by Jonalyn

Installment 1, Installment 2, Installment 3, Installment 4, Installment 5 Three of Five (to read the entire story from the beginning scroll down to January 4) It’s been two weeks since I went in for a D & C. Now with time to contemplate, I’m glad I did, not because I simply want to “get [...]

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Prayer Journal Day Five- Strength for Lati

August 20th, 2007 by Jonalyn

Part 1, Part 2, Part 3, Part 4, Part 5 Yesterday I got so much done and I never blamed or lashed out (which is a sure sign of my lack of peace). God gave me more serenity than I’ve had in a while. I wish I could just keep praying for so many of [...]

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Prayer Journal Day Four- Serenity

August 19th, 2007 by Jonalyn

Part 1, Part 2, Part 3, Part 4, Part 5 Yesterday my sister got married so I didn’t have the space or time to write. That was a glorious day, everything a wedding should be surrounded by community from 3 generations in the garden of our childhood home. We all cried aplenty. It was pleasant [...]

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