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Are you curious if faith, feminism and Christian womanhood can intersect? You've found the crossroads. Ruby Slippers is the sparkly nexus of femininity, spirituality and sexual renewal.

I'm the early wife, later mother who writes about the real possibility of following Jesus as a bold female in this century. If you're another curious cat about strong woman who are also sexy, emotional, intelligent, strong and Christian, read on.

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Flat: Pre and Post Pregnancy Body
How Tina Fey Helped Me Love My Body
Finn's Birth: Green Means Go
Finn's Birth: Dignity and Pain
Thighs and Curly Girls
When a Man You Love Was Abused
When Virgins Marry
Some Questions for Mark Driscoll
A Week of Miscarriage

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I've been married 10 years to Dale Fincher, an old soul who makes me feel young and brilliant. We’ve lately had a son, Finn, who we love baby wearing

Seven years ago Dale and I co-founded Soulation. a non-profit dedicated to helping others become more appropriately human. Dale and I work as a speaking/writing team.

I love watercolor, snowshoeing, cooking and reading. Favorite movie to impress you “The Lives of Others”, favorite movie on a Sabbath is "Last Holiday", favorite book Mansfield Park. At the moment we're watching Mad Men, 30Rock, The Office and Dora the Explorer.

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To Cut or Not to Cut: Breast Reduction Surgery the Healthy Way

November 30th, 2011 by Jonalyn

I caught up with a co-founder of a non-profit in town to talk about her recent plastic surgery.  Tara Chavarria and her husband run Christ for Life Sk8 Church a safe place for troubled teens to find community, hope and Jesus. Besides being a wife, mother and director of operations to Sk8 Church, on September 13 [...]

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Deaths of Playboys, Lives of Husbands

November 16th, 2011 by Jonalyn

Gunter Sachs with Brigitte Bardot   – 1967  -  Jean-Pierre Bonnotte/Gamma/Gamma-Rapho via Getty Images I picked up the Wall Street Journal article “Death of the Playboy“ and learned that this author, Steve Garbarino was bemoaning their disappearance.  The independently wealthy, smooth, womanizing playboys of yesteryear can be seen with topless models playing chess, in sports cars [...]

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How Tina Fey Helped me Love My Body

August 31st, 2011 by Jonalyn

Do you know how many women say broad-minded things in public (Every woman is beautiful in her own way), but don’t believe it in their heart of hearts, at least not of themselves? Not of their body. I’ve been looking for a woman who knows how to face the funny facts of her body, laugh, own and [...]

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Beauty will save the world

June 30th, 2011 by Jonalyn

Today I’m wearing a shirt from Image that says “Beauty will save the world.” Gregory Wolfe, who recently penned a book with this title, lifted this enigmatic phrase from Aleksandr Solzhenitsyn’s “Nobel Lecture” who in turn borrowed it from Dostoevsky. I’m wicked tired, so I’m not really illustrating that with my haggard face, unless, of [...]

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Flat – Pre and Post Pregnancy Body

July 27th, 2010 by Jonalyn

My friend, Emily, cuts my hair at Off 7th Studio, Steamboat Springs.  She and I were pregnant together and talked a lot about every stage and hope and fear. We worried together if pregnancy would turn us into women we wouldn’t recognize.  Would we really fall head-over-heels in love with our babies? Would we recognize [...]

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Meditation on Turning Thirty

September 16th, 2009 by Jonalyn

The mist is slipping over the mountains like silk this morning. When I awake to see it and I know I am thirty years old today. Laying in bed, I listen to an elk call, a bugle that sounded at first like the ice cream truck. What is the ice cream man doing at 6am [...]

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Conversation with Molly Aley Part 1- Bodies and Aging

August 18th, 2008 by Jonalyn

There is a woman I’ve met online that you must know about. Her name is Molly. Here is her life in a nutshell: 1. girl meets God 2. girl falls into big fat popular pit of legalism, religion, condemnation and performance-based living and sets up camp there for almost a decade 3. girl meets God [...]

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