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I've been married 10 years to Dale Fincher, an old soul who makes me feel young and brilliant. We’ve lately had a son, Finn, who we love baby wearing

Seven years ago Dale and I co-founded Soulation. a non-profit dedicated to helping others become more appropriately human. Dale and I work as a speaking/writing team.

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Beauty will save the world

June 30th, 2011 by Jonalyn

Today I’m wearing a shirt from Image that says “Beauty will save the world.” Gregory Wolfe, who recently penned a book with this title, lifted this enigmatic phrase from Aleksandr Solzhenitsyn’s “Nobel Lecture” who in turn borrowed it from Dostoevsky. I’m wicked tired, so I’m not really illustrating that with my haggard face, unless, of [...]

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“You’re Only a Woman”: Spiritual Abuse and the Independent Fundamental Baptists

April 14th, 2011 by Jonalyn

The father is the hammer. The mother is the chisel. The child is the stone (please note changes from email). I don’t receive theology from a woman. When Eve gave Adam theology, the whole word got damned to hell. The Bible says man is the head of the wife. The Bible was written by men. [...]

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Interviews on Writing, Speaking and Controversy

December 3rd, 2010 by Jonalyn

Most of my friends, the longtime ones, would tell you that my plans as a young woman don’t look like my life today. I didn’t want to go to college, instead I wanted to be married fairly young. I wanted to teach at a public high school until I got pregnant.  I wanted to have twelve–yes [...]

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Evangelistic Tagging and Female Friends

October 17th, 2010 by Jonalyn

So these two ideas are not necessarily related, but they do summarize 2 writing projects (one small and one big) I’ve been working on. As I’m writing in several places, I thought it would be good for your sanity and organization to know that this blog will keep you updated on new places to read [...]

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Abortion – Listening to Both Sides

May 30th, 2010 by Jonalyn

In a Gallup poll released last month, I learned that 47% of Americans consider themselves pro-life, 45% pro-choice.  As William McGurn wrote in the Wall Street Journal (“Gallup’s Pro-Life America: When Will the Media Reflect America on Abortion?“) this week, “Our strong moral qualms about abortion have not gone away.” However, most Americans still want [...]

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A Weekend with Messianic Jews

January 20th, 2009 by Jonalyn

I got to dance. This last weekend, the Soulation speaking team (read: Dale and me) flew to Atlanta for the Young Messianic Jewish Association’s (YMJA) Annual Youth Leaders Retreat. We had already been prepped with the request to call Jesus by his Jewish name, “Yeshua” and to do “what we do best” which in this [...]

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"Compare Jesus" Part IV- Jesus Outshine C.T. Russell and Conclusion

August 6th, 2008 by Jonalyn

Part 1, Part 2, Part 3, Part 4 Charles Taze (C.T.) Russell, founder of the Jehovah Witnesses had an unusual marital agreement with his wife, Maria Frances Ackley (1850-1938). C.T. and Maria entered into a marriage of celibacy for the sake of partnering in their ministry. But Ackley eventually distanced herself from her husband, not [...]

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