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Are you curious if faith, feminism and Christian womanhood can intersect? You've found the crossroads. Ruby Slippers is the sparkly nexus of femininity, spirituality and sexual renewal.

I'm the early wife, later mother who writes about the real possibility of following Jesus as a bold female in this century. If you're another curious cat about strong woman who are also sexy, emotional, intelligent, strong and Christian, read on.

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Flat: Pre and Post Pregnancy Body
How Tina Fey Helped Me Love My Body
Finn's Birth: Green Means Go
Finn's Birth: Dignity and Pain
Thighs and Curly Girls
When a Man You Love Was Abused
When Virgins Marry
Some Questions for Mark Driscoll
A Week of Miscarriage

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I've been married 10 years to Dale Fincher, an old soul who makes me feel young and brilliant. We’ve lately had a son, Finn, who we love baby wearing

Seven years ago Dale and I co-founded Soulation. a non-profit dedicated to helping others become more appropriately human. Dale and I work as a speaking/writing team.

I love watercolor, snowshoeing, cooking and reading. Favorite movie to impress you “The Lives of Others”, favorite movie on a Sabbath is "Last Holiday", favorite book Mansfield Park. At the moment we're watching Mad Men, 30Rock, The Office and Dora the Explorer.

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When a Man You Love Was Abused – Book Review

August 17th, 2011 by Jonalyn

There is a silent epidemic among the men we know and love. For every six men, one has been sexually abused. Why read a book on men and sexual abuse?  To put it simply and confidentially, I know men who have been sexually abused. I want to understand them and love them better. I’ve pored over [...]

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In Pain . . . Blessed are You

July 26th, 2011 by Jonalyn

Now I know Jesus wasn’t a masochist, but when a childhood friend drops you like a hot potato, when she tries to hurt you and talks behind your back, when she makes your life miserable and you consider unfriending her on facebook (gasp!) when you want to move toIceland to get away, where does Jesus get [...]

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Washed and Waiting: Reflections on Christian Faithfulness and Homosexuality

January 6th, 2011 by Jonalyn

New Year’s Resolutions seem like a great way to get egg on your face, because who really keeps them the whole year? Yet, with typical zeal and determination, I’ve joined the ranks of attempting to make a resolution.  I’m going to try to read about a book a week. “About” because some book are so [...]

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Family, Crisis and Beautiful Wings

December 15th, 2010 by Jonalyn

I just sat down with a toasted everything bagel and raspberry hot tea. It’s my special morning time (happens only a few times a week) to write. In the last post I promised to write about family and crisis, how the week before Thanksgiving I got a call from Dale that my dad’s ATV had [...]

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When Women Carry . . . Handguns: Sergeant Kimberly Munley and Fort Hood

November 7th, 2009 by Jonalyn

The recent shooting at Fort Hood has left me sober, but also grateful. If you have not heard the story I recommend you read it here:”Hash Browns, Then 4 Minutes of Chaos.” Below is a significant section that I want to highlight this morning: “Kimberly Munley, a 35-year-old police officer, happened to be nearby, waiting [...]

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When Women Carry . . . Handguns: Sergeant Kimberly Munley and Fort Hood

November 7th, 2009 by Jonalyn

The recent shooting at Fort Hood has left me sober, but also grateful. If you have not heard the story I recommend you read it here:”Hash Browns, Then 4 Minutes of Chaos.” Below is a significant section that I want to highlight this morning: “Kimberly Munley, a 35-year-old police officer, happened to be nearby, waiting [...]

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Lynching Today

March 6th, 2009 by Jonalyn

Please be forewarned, this is a heavy one. Last night I attended a Theater Dance Production where I saw much talent and a lot of skin. Some dances were sensual, some merely sexual. One in particular stood out to me where a posse of women (teens?) danced around one man to the music of Timbaland [...]

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