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Are you curious if faith, feminism and Christian womanhood can intersect? You've found the crossroads. Ruby Slippers is the sparkly nexus of femininity, spirituality and sexual renewal.

I'm the early wife, later mother who writes about the real possibility of following Jesus as a bold female in this century. If you're another curious cat about strong woman who are also sexy, emotional, intelligent, strong and Christian, read on.

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Flat: Pre and Post Pregnancy Body
How Tina Fey Helped Me Love My Body
Finn's Birth: Green Means Go
Finn's Birth: Dignity and Pain
Thighs and Curly Girls
When a Man You Love Was Abused
When Virgins Marry
Some Questions for Mark Driscoll
A Week of Miscarriage

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I've been married 10 years to Dale Fincher, an old soul who makes me feel young and brilliant. We’ve lately had a son, Finn, who we love baby wearing

Seven years ago Dale and I co-founded Soulation. a non-profit dedicated to helping others become more appropriately human. Dale and I work as a speaking/writing team.

I love watercolor, snowshoeing, cooking and reading. Favorite movie to impress you “The Lives of Others”, favorite movie on a Sabbath is "Last Holiday", favorite book Mansfield Park. At the moment we're watching Mad Men, 30Rock, The Office and Dora the Explorer.

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Sharing Your Faith . . . Without Losing Your Friends

November 2nd, 2011 by Jonalyn

Talking about God is more like slicing carrots than cooking them. You’ve got to be careful with that knife and the more time you take the better. Pressure does great things for cooking carrots and building faith, but it does nothing for sharing it. Pressure Free If we’re pressured for time, friends or approval, we [...]

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Coffee Shop Conversations: Making the Most of Spiritual Small Talk

September 28th, 2011 by Jonalyn

Have you found it difficult to talk to others about your faith? Dale and I realized we needed to think harder and write more on this subject. A few years I authored “Boutique Religion” a Fledge series (spiritual formation articles on how to be Positively Human) with tips on communicating Jesus’ message to those we [...]

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When a Man You Love Was Abused – Book Review

August 17th, 2011 by Jonalyn

There is a silent epidemic among the men we know and love. For every six men, one has been sexually abused. Why read a book on men and sexual abuse?  To put it simply and confidentially, I know men who have been sexually abused. I want to understand them and love them better. I’ve pored over [...]

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In Pain . . . Blessed are You

July 26th, 2011 by Jonalyn

Now I know Jesus wasn’t a masochist, but when a childhood friend drops you like a hot potato, when she tries to hurt you and talks behind your back, when she makes your life miserable and you consider unfriending her on facebook (gasp!) when you want to move toIceland to get away, where does Jesus get [...]

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Evangelical Feminist?

July 10th, 2011 by Jonalyn

Caryn Rivandeniera posts on the trouble with Democrats including evangelical feminists as serious biz at Her-meneutics blog hosted by Christianity Today. My favorite quote came when she pulled from Anne Graham Lotz (Bill Graham’s daughter), a woman who has had men turn their backs to her while she spoke to mixed audiences. In her Washington [...]

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“You’re Only a Woman”: Spiritual Abuse and the Independent Fundamental Baptists

April 14th, 2011 by Jonalyn

The father is the hammer. The mother is the chisel. The child is the stone (please note changes from email). I don’t receive theology from a woman. When Eve gave Adam theology, the whole word got damned to hell. The Bible says man is the head of the wife. The Bible was written by men. [...]

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Interviews on Writing, Speaking and Controversy

December 3rd, 2010 by Jonalyn

Most of my friends, the longtime ones, would tell you that my plans as a young woman don’t look like my life today. I didn’t want to go to college, instead I wanted to be married fairly young. I wanted to teach at a public high school until I got pregnant.  I wanted to have twelve–yes [...]

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