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Are you curious if faith, feminism and Christian womanhood can intersect? You've found the crossroads. Ruby Slippers is the sparkly nexus of femininity, spirituality and sexual renewal.

I'm the early wife, later mother who writes about the real possibility of following Jesus as a bold female in this century. If you're another curious cat about strong woman who are also sexy, emotional, intelligent, strong and Christian, read on.

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Flat: Pre and Post Pregnancy Body
How Tina Fey Helped Me Love My Body
Finn's Birth: Green Means Go
Finn's Birth: Dignity and Pain
Thighs and Curly Girls
When a Man You Love Was Abused
When Virgins Marry
Some Questions for Mark Driscoll
A Week of Miscarriage

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I've been married 10 years to Dale Fincher, an old soul who makes me feel young and brilliant. We’ve lately had a son, Finn, who we love baby wearing

Seven years ago Dale and I co-founded Soulation. a non-profit dedicated to helping others become more appropriately human. Dale and I work as a speaking/writing team.

I love watercolor, snowshoeing, cooking and reading. Favorite movie to impress you “The Lives of Others”, favorite movie on a Sabbath is "Last Holiday", favorite book Mansfield Park. At the moment we're watching Mad Men, 30Rock, The Office and Dora the Explorer.

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New Year Wantings & Co-Parenting Safely Through Rapids

January 11th, 2012 by Jonalyn

Dale doesn’t think new year resolutions are all they’re cracked up to be. I tend to disagree, mainly because I’m a lover of opportunities to change in grandiose ways, ways I can write about and check up on. Dale is a changer in bits and pieces, he’s also big on changing when the need arises. [...]

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Ruby Slippers: the sparkling connection between, faith, feminism and Christian womanhood

October 5th, 2011 by Jonalyn

Have you read the Grimm story about a girl who slept in the cinders, but ends up a princess?  The Grimm version has this horrible bloody bit about stepsisters, knives and feet. Determined to make the prince their man, and pitting themselves against each other, they carve out slices of their toe or heel to [...]

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Thighs this Summer and Curly Girls

July 22nd, 2011 by Jonalyn

I cut off an old pair of horse-riding jeans this morning.  They’re short, even shorter when I roll them. Yikes! I checked out my short shorts (and post-momma legs) in our mirror. My legs, in the back, look like someone else’s legs.  Not quite firm, not quite smooth, not quite tan. I’m sort of concerned. [...]

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Pridometer – what is pride?

June 9th, 2011 by Jonalyn

Pride is a chameleon. You think you’re avoiding the vice, when lo, and behold you’ve transmogrified into Pride’s Poster Child. Martyr’s Pride Last week on our flight from London to Chicago.  Dale had his noise canceling ear plugs in to watch Beastly. Must be nice. Finn was restless. Later we found he had two ear infections. [...]

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Battle Hymn of the Tiger Mother – Virtuous? Successful? Humble?

February 15th, 2011 by Jonalyn

There exist a group of people who hunt out the most difficult task because they believe it is the virtuous task. Amy Chua, the woman who recommends a relentless, driving style of parenting is one of these, she recommends her parenting because it has been the hardest thing she’s ever done. She reminds me of [...]

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Flat – Pre and Post Pregnancy Body

July 27th, 2010 by Jonalyn

My friend, Emily, cuts my hair at Off 7th Studio, Steamboat Springs.  She and I were pregnant together and talked a lot about every stage and hope and fear. We worried together if pregnancy would turn us into women we wouldn’t recognize.  Would we really fall head-over-heels in love with our babies? Would we recognize [...]

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Women and Their Wonderful Bodies

February 3rd, 2010 by Jonalyn

During one of the last golden days of summer I watched the sun illuminate a forest of changing aspen leaves. Each aspen glowed as a piece of God’s handiwork.  As I sat into the silence I didn’t hear any aspen bemoan their figure or their hair or their height. God says he made the trees [...]

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