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Are you curious if faith, feminism and Christian womanhood can intersect? You've found the crossroads. Ruby Slippers is the sparkly nexus of femininity, spirituality and sexual renewal.

I'm the early wife, later mother who writes about the real possibility of following Jesus as a bold female in this century. If you're another curious cat about strong woman who are also sexy, emotional, intelligent, strong and Christian, read on.

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When a Man You Love Was Abused
When Virgins Marry
Some Questions for Mark Driscoll
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I've been married 10 years to Dale Fincher, an old soul who makes me feel young and brilliant. We’ve lately had a son, Finn, who we love baby wearing

Seven years ago Dale and I co-founded Soulation. a non-profit dedicated to helping others become more appropriately human. Dale and I work as a speaking/writing team.

I love watercolor, snowshoeing, cooking and reading. Favorite movie to impress you “The Lives of Others”, favorite movie on a Sabbath is "Last Holiday", favorite book Mansfield Park. At the moment we're watching Mad Men, 30Rock, The Office and Dora the Explorer.

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Eating an Orange: Women and Food

February 22nd, 2012 by Jonalyn

I sat with an unpeeled orange in my lap looking out over the snowy hill.  I could see the spot where we buried Lady Lucia, our oldest, loveliest corgi’s body (The Day Lucy Fell Into Shadow), the earth a little more scarred from the effort of digging a grave in the winter (Digging) I suppose [...]

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Practical Rest: When Busy Women Welcome Sabbath

February 1st, 2012 by Jonalyn

You know I care about resting, that I try to practice Sabbath rest. But I don’t practice faithfully or consistently.  In other words, I’m always looking for better ways to practice rest. One reader of RubySlippers, a woman I met at a speaking engagement in New Hampshire recently explains how she rests.  As a mother [...]

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Mercy for Christmas

December 14th, 2011 by Jonalyn

As a young girl I played “Mercy” with other friends. The wrist-bending game where the loser had to shout, “Mercy.” The word that meant punishment would end, the word that was embarrassing to yell. Dale and I watched an episode of Midsomer Murders last weekend. The kind vicar with the bitchy wife was the murderer.  Several [...]

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Bump and Stumble – Meditation on Being Good Enough

December 7th, 2011 by Jonalyn

Dale left for an unexpectedly long trip on Friday. With husband stuck in an Eastern Colorado snowstorm and the interstate officially closed I found myself getting beyond weary with my little one. I could only salute single mothers from my Facebook status, eat chocolate cake and go to bed. No blogging, no emailing. I was [...]

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Sharing Your Faith . . . Without Losing Your Friends

November 2nd, 2011 by Jonalyn

Talking about God is more like slicing carrots than cooking them. You’ve got to be careful with that knife and the more time you take the better. Pressure does great things for cooking carrots and building faith, but it does nothing for sharing it. Pressure Free If we’re pressured for time, friends or approval, we [...]

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How Motherhood Has (and Has Not) Changed Me

October 19th, 2010 by Jonalyn

You know how in certain seasons of life it seems like everyone is getting engaged (except you)? And then getting married? and then having their first kid? their second? their third? Dale often told me when I was beginning to want a wee one that most his friends were on their third baby.  We tried [...]

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Tidbits in My Tummy

December 8th, 2008 by Jonalyn

Syndicated from Gifted for Leadership Food, glorious food! It’s the time of year for eating. I imagine most of our Thanksgiving turkey gobbled up and the leftovers transformed into dishes like Real Simple’s recommendation: turkey barbeque sandwiches. Food and Power Food has power over our health. Earlier this week my husband, Dale, re-lived the poisonous [...]

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