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Are you curious if faith, feminism and Christian womanhood can intersect? You've found the crossroads. Ruby Slippers is the sparkly nexus of femininity, spirituality and sexual renewal.

I'm the early wife, later mother who writes about the real possibility of following Jesus as a bold female in this century. If you're another curious cat about strong woman who are also sexy, emotional, intelligent, strong and Christian, read on.

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Flat: Pre and Post Pregnancy Body
How Tina Fey Helped Me Love My Body
Finn's Birth: Green Means Go
Finn's Birth: Dignity and Pain
Thighs and Curly Girls
When a Man You Love Was Abused
When Virgins Marry
Some Questions for Mark Driscoll
A Week of Miscarriage

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I've been married 10 years to Dale Fincher, an old soul who makes me feel young and brilliant. We’ve lately had a son, Finn, who we love baby wearing

Seven years ago Dale and I co-founded Soulation. a non-profit dedicated to helping others become more appropriately human. Dale and I work as a speaking/writing team.

I love watercolor, snowshoeing, cooking and reading. Favorite movie to impress you “The Lives of Others”, favorite movie on a Sabbath is "Last Holiday", favorite book Mansfield Park. At the moment we're watching Mad Men, 30Rock, The Office and Dora the Explorer.

Posts Tagged ‘friendship’


Gifts of Vulnerability for Christmas

December 21st, 2011 by Jonalyn

To my faithful ~ Dale and I have come to a deeply practical, life-giving understanding. I look forward to sharing in a future post how our new set-up has changed all of us, including Finn.  This turning of a new leaf will be an appropriate bit of sharing for the New Year. For now, I [...]

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Coffee Shop Conversations: Making the Most of Spiritual Small Talk

September 28th, 2011 by Jonalyn

Have you found it difficult to talk to others about your faith? Dale and I realized we needed to think harder and write more on this subject. A few years I authored “Boutique Religion” a Fledge series (spiritual formation articles on how to be Positively Human) with tips on communicating Jesus’ message to those we [...]

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Talking to Young Girls

August 10th, 2011 by Jonalyn

When you meet a little girl, one wrapped in pink tulle or a quirky, bold hat, what do you say? “What a fun hat!”,  ”Look at your dress, you look so sweet in that!” Her blue eyes sparkle and I’m IN. They want to talk to me. All for an easily spoken, easily created compliment [...]

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Golden Hands and Exotic Poles

March 2nd, 2011 by Jonalyn

Being a little more than a quarter Hispanic, given the multi-ethnic look of so many models, it’s be easy to assume that it’s the Mexican blood that has the potential to make me exotic. But, if exotic means strikingly unusual, then the most unusual bit of me isn’t Mexican, it’s Polish. My short grandmother is [...]

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Evangelistic Tagging and Female Friends

October 17th, 2010 by Jonalyn

So these two ideas are not necessarily related, but they do summarize 2 writing projects (one small and one big) I’ve been working on. As I’m writing in several places, I thought it would be good for your sanity and organization to know that this blog will keep you updated on new places to read [...]

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Book Review: Find Your Way Home

March 25th, 2009 by Jonalyn

There are few short devotional books I like, even fewer that don’t tweak my theologian side as being too wimpy for anyone who wants to think deeply about God. But a few weeks back I was sent a book to review and I’m happy to say that though it is short (you can read it [...]

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A Weekend with Messianic Jews

January 20th, 2009 by Jonalyn

I got to dance. This last weekend, the Soulation speaking team (read: Dale and me) flew to Atlanta for the Young Messianic Jewish Association’s (YMJA) Annual Youth Leaders Retreat. We had already been prepped with the request to call Jesus by his Jewish name, “Yeshua” and to do “what we do best” which in this [...]

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