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I've been married 10 years to Dale Fincher, an old soul who makes me feel young and brilliant. We’ve lately had a son, Finn, who we love baby wearing

Seven years ago Dale and I co-founded Soulation. a non-profit dedicated to helping others become more appropriately human. Dale and I work as a speaking/writing team.

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Meek and Pathetic Wives?

November 10th, 2011 by Jonalyn

I just read my words quoted in the Washington Post “Christian Leaders Talk about Marriage and Sex” this morning. Lisa Miller writes, The model Christian marriage, moreover, has traditionally been one in which the wife bows to the will of her husband the way a Christian does to God, but many evangelical women are in [...]

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Theology, essays, sexperts and novels on my nightstand

October 12th, 2011 by Jonalyn

I’ve come across some books you need to know about, places my soul stopped, places others who want to walk into more freedom will find some refreshing water. These titles were not sent to me seeking endorsement; I didn’t get them for free. Rather, I bought to pore over them. Each deserve a full post [...]

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Ruby Slippers: the sparkling connection between, faith, feminism and Christian womanhood

October 5th, 2011 by Jonalyn

Have you read the Grimm story about a girl who slept in the cinders, but ends up a princess?  The Grimm version has this horrible bloody bit about stepsisters, knives and feet. Determined to make the prince their man, and pitting themselves against each other, they carve out slices of their toe or heel to [...]

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Co-Parenting – a Bag of Tips and Tricks

September 21st, 2011 by Jonalyn

I just finished The Paris Wifeby Paula McLain, a book swirling with the roles of men and women, Ernest Hemingway and Hadley Richardson respectively.  Hadley sacrifices for Ernest’s career, finding excitement and purpose unmatched by any of her prospects in his life. They move to Paris.  Not until Hadley becomes pregnant can she find a [...]

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When a Man You Love Was Abused – Book Review

August 17th, 2011 by Jonalyn

There is a silent epidemic among the men we know and love. For every six men, one has been sexually abused. Why read a book on men and sexual abuse?  To put it simply and confidentially, I know men who have been sexually abused. I want to understand them and love them better. I’ve pored over [...]

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Some Questions for Mark Driscoll

July 20th, 2011 by Jonalyn

Nearly five years ago I finished a three year project about femininity and the ways men and women’s souls are distinct (Ruby Slippers: How the Soul of a Woman Brings Her Home). Since then I’ve discovered that it’s not just women wrestling with their gender. Men are as confused about what makes them masculine. Men [...]

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Evangelical Feminist?

July 10th, 2011 by Jonalyn

Caryn Rivandeniera posts on the trouble with Democrats including evangelical feminists as serious biz at Her-meneutics blog hosted by Christianity Today. My favorite quote came when she pulled from Anne Graham Lotz (Bill Graham’s daughter), a woman who has had men turn their backs to her while she spoke to mixed audiences. In her Washington [...]

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