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I've been married 10 years to Dale Fincher, an old soul who makes me feel young and brilliant. We’ve lately had a son, Finn, who we love baby wearing

Seven years ago Dale and I co-founded Soulation. a non-profit dedicated to helping others become more appropriately human. Dale and I work as a speaking/writing team.

I love watercolor, snowshoeing, cooking and reading. Favorite movie to impress you “The Lives of Others”, favorite movie on a Sabbath is "Last Holiday", favorite book Mansfield Park. At the moment we're watching Mad Men, 30Rock, The Office and Dora the Explorer.

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How to be Mom Enough

May 11th, 2012 by Jonalyn

A mother gives a child her place in this world. We are all walking tableaus of how we were raised.  Even the woman on the cover of Time’s most recent desperate cover (desperate in media stunt to usher women into a more mommy war), she tells us about her mother. What? well you’d have to [...]

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Eating an Orange: Women and Food

February 22nd, 2012 by Jonalyn

I sat with an unpeeled orange in my lap looking out over the snowy hill.  I could see the spot where we buried Lady Lucia, our oldest, loveliest corgi’s body (The Day Lucy Fell Into Shadow), the earth a little more scarred from the effort of digging a grave in the winter (Digging) I suppose [...]

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Practical Rest: When Busy Women Welcome Sabbath

February 1st, 2012 by Jonalyn

You know I care about resting, that I try to practice Sabbath rest. But I don’t practice faithfully or consistently.  In other words, I’m always looking for better ways to practice rest. One reader of RubySlippers, a woman I met at a speaking engagement in New Hampshire recently explains how she rests.  As a mother [...]

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When Men Fall: Vulnerability as a Prerequisite for Heroes

January 25th, 2012 by Jonalyn

I believe that our beliefs about our humanity, our femininity and masculinity directly affect what we will do, how we will grow, how we will fail and how we will recover. I’ve only 200 pages left of Daniel Walker’s “God in a Brothel: An Undercover Journey into Sex Trafficking and Rescue” (these are iPhone pages, [...]

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New Year Wantings & Co-Parenting Safely Through Rapids

January 11th, 2012 by Jonalyn

Dale doesn’t think new year resolutions are all they’re cracked up to be. I tend to disagree, mainly because I’m a lover of opportunities to change in grandiose ways, ways I can write about and check up on. Dale is a changer in bits and pieces, he’s also big on changing when the need arises. [...]

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Smiling Too Much

January 3rd, 2012 by Jonalyn

We spent New Year’s in Pebble Beach at a dear cousin’s home.  We walked Carmel’s beach and watched picture-perfect blond women walking scores of blond retrievers. Beautiful women, beautiful children, beautiful dogs. Some posing for pictures with beautiful teeth to add to the mix. We saw vacationers smiling next to the 17-Mile Drive Lone Cypress. [...]

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Gifts of Vulnerability for Christmas

December 21st, 2011 by Jonalyn

To my faithful ~ Dale and I have come to a deeply practical, life-giving understanding. I look forward to sharing in a future post how our new set-up has changed all of us, including Finn.  This turning of a new leaf will be an appropriate bit of sharing for the New Year. For now, I [...]

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