2012

beauty, body, friendship, gender roles, love, sex

Harry and Sally are Wrong: Friendships between Men and Women+

To watch a video version of this post for Biola University’s Torrey Honors Conference, see “Harry and Sally are Wrong:...

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beauty, body, love, sex, vulnerability

I used to be a proud member of the modesty police. When I was in college I did a talk...

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I’ve listened with inner surprise as friends explained their preferences in bed. You really do that? I want to say....

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body, Fifty Shades of Gray, sex, vulnerability

A man walks past your office, he’s eating a sandwich that smells like heaven. You notice it’s past lunch. You...

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character, gender roles

I thought they were my friends, they were strong, attractive, Spanish guys. We were in the same honors math classes...

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