I read this line from Brené Brown, “Holy *#$&. I am the patriarchy.” After the example she gave, I had...
New Smartphone Habits for Election Season+
In the movie Wall-E, the mega-corporation Buy n Large (BnL) has taken over the world. Far from earth, on the...
Christianity Was Crushing My Children+
Part 2 Meet Vyckie (if you missed Part 1). I met the activist and atheist, Vyckie D. Garrison, first on Twitter. Our...
Abortion Debated – Emerald City with Emily Heist Moss+
I’ve become friends with this columnist over in Chicago. There’s a lot that separates us. Emily Heist Moss is liberal, shows...
Harry and Sally are Wrong: Friendships between Men and Women+
To watch a video version of this post for Biola University’s Torrey Honors Conference, see “Harry and Sally are Wrong:...
Free to Talk With An Atheist+
People with no religious affiliation have risen from 8% in 1990 to 21% in 2013.* Chances are you’re going to...
What is Jesus’ Sexual Ethic?+
“We have what we need to develop a sexual ethic [from Jesus’ words]. But it’s not going to be based...
Sex Positive Education for Christians+
It only seems appropriate after last week’s post on Christianity was Crushing My Children to take a week break from...
Harry and Sally Are Wrong Two Years Later+
It’s been two years since I spoke at Biola University’s Torrey Conference on how “Harry and Sally Are Wrong: Why...
Shutting Down Shame in Marriage+
“Instead of getting defensive and blowing up, realize that he or she has just been very brave.” Building on last...
A Final Post+
Maybe you saw a post from RubySlippers in your subject line and wondered. It’s been a long time since I’ve...
New Smartphone Habits for Election Season+
In the movie Wall-E, the mega-corporation Buy n Large (BnL) has taken over the world. Far from earth, on the...
How “Marital Smugness” Hurts Single & Gay People (From my new book)+
I’ve just finished a short book. Finding Words: An Unusual Evangelical View on the Gay Marriage Debate came out of the class...
The Therapy Solution for Sexual Shame+
If you’ve been following along this summer (check out the full series list below to catch up), you’ve probably heard...
Sex with the Lights On: A Spiritual Discipline?+
They knew life was precious, and love–you just don’t turn it away. For ten years at Soulation, we’ve worked to...
What’s Allowed in Christian Bedrooms?+
“Right behavior in and of itself does not assure love, honor, or grace.” When you want to do something out...
When Women Initiate Sex+
Ladies: How does your spouse react when you take the lead sexually? Men tend to not publicly complain about their wives...